|Text: Luke 14:11-14
Those who make themselves great will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be made great." Then Jesus said to his host, "When you give a lunch or a dinner, do not invite your friends or your brothers or your relatives or your rich neighboursófor they will invite you back, and in this way you will be paid for what you did. When you give a feast, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, and the blind; and you will be blessed, because they are not able to pay you back. God will repay you on the day the good people rise from death."
As children, some of you may have read the fascinating book Alice in Wonderland. Alice falls asleep and has this amazing dream where everything seems to be upside down and back to front. She encounters White Rabbit with a pocket watch who is always running late, a Caterpillar who gives advice, a grinning and talking Cheshire Cat that keeps vanishing, the King and Queen of Hearts who are always saying "Off with their heads!" Then there is the rude Mad Hatter who is always rebuking Alice for her rudeness, and Tweedle-dum and Tweedle-dee who like to recite poetry. Alice notices that everything is quite back to front in this strange world. She discovers surprise after surprise as she meets back to front people and creatures.
Reading the Gospels is never as confusing as the adventures of Alice in Wonderland, but sometimes you wonder if Jesus does get things back to front and upside down. Todayís reading is an example of this. He says that those who are great will be and least in the Kingdom of God and those who are humble will be the greatest. Thatís so back to front. It should be those who get ahead, the winners in this world, those who use their worldly wealth to make more wealth, the successful people; they are the ones whom you would expect Jesus to say will the great people in Godís Kingdom.
Then he adds that when inviting people to a dinner party donít invite your friends, or relatives, neighbours as you would normally do, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, and the blind. How ridiculous is that! Inviting every drunk, street kid, drug addict, cheat you can find is sheer madness. Jesus is redefining what "hospitality" is. He doesnít say to send food to the down and outs, but that the host is to sit down at a meal table with them. This is so back to front. Who in their right mind would do something like this? When you think about it, itís not so different to the world Alice found herself in. So back to front.
And these arenít the only instances of Jesus back to front ideas. He said, "Those who want to save their life will lose, but whoever loses his life for me and the gospel will save it" (Matt 8:35). And on several occasions, he commends the most unlikely people for their faith or good deeds, like the Samaritan leper, the Syro-Phoenician woman, tax collectors and prostitutes. Why doesnít he say nice things about the people whom youíd expect him to speak favourably Ė Godís people Ė the Jews.
Jesus is back to front and upside down. He does this to highlight that the ways of the Kingdom of God are not the same as that of the rest of the world. What is considered right and good in the world may not be the case in Godís Kingdom. He gives us these back to front ideas to help us re-examine what it is that we have accepted as right, whereas in actual fact they are not Godís ways.
It is so easy for a Christian to be so taken up with a certain
attitude or way of life that is so opposite what God wants. The argument always
goes, "Everyone else is doing it." But just because everyone else is
doing it, doesnít mean it is right and God-pleasing.
Just because it is the trend to move in with a partner and live together before the commitment of marriage, that doesnít make it right.
Just because every one else at school is cheating or plagiarising, doesnít mean that this is right thing to do.
Just because your friends ridicule aboriginals, gay people or migrants that doesnít mean that this is what God wants.
You see, itís so easy for us as Godís people to quite unwittingly and unintentionally say things that are right when they are wrong. This is what Jesus is saying today in our text. Godís ways can be so against what is the accepted standard in the rest of the world.
Why do we find following Godís ways so hard and following the
crowd so easy?
There are several reasons.
Firstly, there is the problem of standing out. If you adopt an attitude that is different to everyone else then all and sundry will notice that you are different. If you express what are Godís ways in a discussion, you are afraid that you might be called a "goody-goody" or "a religious fanatic". And so to avoid that, itís better to go along with everyone else.
Secondly, the ways of the world can be much more appealing and
easier than those of the Kingdom of God. Itís easier to be separated from your
spouse or get a divorce than to go through all the hassles of trying to resolves
the problems in a marriage.
Itís more appealing to have sex with a number of partners than to be faithful to one.
Thirdly, the shift from Godís ways and the ways of the world
can be ever so subtle. This is one of Satanís cunning tricks. He makes you
think that you are following the ways of Godís Kingdom whereas in fact you are
following his ways.
I have known people who are regular Sunday worshippers believe that there is nothing wrong with praying at a Buddhist shrine in their lounge room during the week. Somehow, along the way they came to believe there was nothing wrong with it. Their acceptance of this had been so subtle that they hadnít noticed the conflict with their Christian faith. This example may not seem so subtle and we may say, "How could they?" The shift happened so slowly and so cleverly that they couldnít believe that they had been so easily led away from Jesus.
Fourthly, the culture we live in is very good at producing
popular trends. We call it the "in thing". Itís the "in
thing" to wear certain style of clothes.
Itís the "in thing" for men and women to spend loads of money seeking the perfect looking body.
Itís so easy to follow what is "the in thing" without even checking whether this is what God wants you to do or not. You follow the crowd along without realising that what you are doing may not be what God wants.
And since this is Fathersí Day, a day we focus on the family
and its unique place in Godís plan for the people of this world, itís a good
idea to re-examine --
the way you are parenting your children,
your role as a grandparent to the younger generations,
the kind of son or daughter you have been.
Is your home one where parents spend time with children Ė playing together, working together, learning together, having fun together as well giving discipline when necessary. This goes against the "in thing" where parents offer very little discipline, and are so accommodating that their children get whatever they want. Is your home a place where Jesus is spoken about and taught frequently and parents model what it means to be a Christian in todayís world?
Does your home place too much emphasis on material happiness rather than happiness that comes from knowing Jesus?
Have you as a grandparent taken an interest in your grandchildren, perhaps even providing spiritual direction where parents fail to do so?
To follow Godís ways may seem like the more difficult path, in
fact the path that seems so back to front compared to the ways of the world.
Jesus never promised that following Godís ways would be the easiest path.
This is the way Godís people stand out from the rest of the world.
We can witness to the world that there is a better way.
We can give evidence to the world that being a member of Godís kingdom is something very special; that it makes a difference in the way we live our lives.
The question that remains to be answered is Ė "how do I find out what is Godís ways for my life and my family? What does it mean to live as members of Godís Kingdom?
The answer is simple Ė Godís Word, the Bible. This is Godís message to all of us and reveals to us Godís Son. The Bible tells us the ways he wants his children to live. He wants us to read it and study and take in what it means to be members of the Kingdom of God. He wants us to learn how much he loves us. He wants us to be the Kingdom of God in the world and to make a difference.
And the more we read it, the more we become aware that we are very poor at being members of Godís kingdom. Our sinfulness wants to take the easy path, to do the "in thing", to follow the crowd and not stand out. Everyday our best intentions are sidetracked and we fall into sin, we deny that we are members of God's Kingdom. We can become quite upset and feel really bad that we have let God down again.
The Bible reminds us that we are members of God's Kingdom simply and only because of what Jesus did for us on the cross. And everyday he declares us "forgiven". He makes us clean with his precious blood. And then he invites us to live as his people in his Kingdom.
Life in the kingdom of God is no walk in the park Ė it is hard work. Jesusí disciples were the first to understand this. God grant us the wisdom and the ability of discerning what are Godís ways and what or not so that we may faithfully follow Jesus letting his light shine through us into our homes, neighbourhood and the world around us.
© Pastor Vince
2nd September, 2001
Except where otherwise noted, Scripture quotations are from the Good News Bible, © American Bible Society, revised Australian edition 1994.